Are You Tired Of Playing The "FOOL" For Deadbeat Men? Why Can't You Attract a Good Christian Man?
Expert Reveals Ten Reasons Why You Keep Attracting Mr. Wrong.
When Eve played the "fool" for Satan and was tricked out of her most beautiful, peaceful paradise home on earth, a land once without flaws and sin, that opened the doors for all evil to step in and do what it does best: to kill, steal, and destroy. However, it is now time for females to stop listening to venomous snakes and deadbeat men who are poisioning their sense of reality when it comes to having the kind of life that God requires. The wrong men seem to appear out of nowhere (Just like Satan appeared to Eve in the Garden of Eden) on some females' doorsteps, carrying more than a lifetime of baggage and heartache.
Have you ever wondered why some women have great godly marriages and kids, where others routinely do not? Have you ever taken a good look into the mirror and wondered why you are still single, but continue to bed hop with different men, never once been asked to the altar? If so, then you need to evaluate and examine areas of brokenness in your relationships that are producing poor outcomes. The majority of females would like to oneday settle down with a Christian man and become his wife. But the negative ways they are portraying themselves only going to attract the type of men that are only good for the trash dumpster.
This Christian self- help relationship book entitled "THE FEMALE FOOL: 10 Reasons Why You Aren't Attracting a Good Christian Man, explains why women tend to attract the Christian men, whereas, females do not. There is a huge difference in character between a woman and a female when it comes to her moral values and Christian disposition. Many females desire to attract a good Christian man, but they fail to follow God's standards when it comes to attracting that man. They go out and about and choose men by the world's standards and when the relationship hits "rock bottom" then they say, "All Men Are Dogs." All men are not dogs, but if females continue to lie down with dogs, they are going to keep getting up with fleas.
There are a vast number of females who desire to date that "bad boy" maybe because they think that what makes a strong man. But as they age in maturity and no longer longs for that "thug guy", by then they probably have shared themselves sexually, conceived one or more of his kids, and have lost all self- respect. Females do not have to be a "fool" for a man. The best accesory she can own is confidence and that shows from within. Allow God to send you that mate, and don't be a female who needs a man, but be a woman a man needs.
My reasons why some females might be falling in their search for a good Christian man include:
1. Stop Being The 1st of the Month Female- Governmental Benefits are very helpful to people who are in desperate need for assistance. But to females who continue to rely on the government to take care of their kids, it is unacceptable. Get off of welfare and go and find your children's father and make him take on the responsibilities.
2. Too Much Promiscous Sex and Bed Hopping- What decent man wants a female who has "gone around the block" too many times? When a man sleeps around he is considered to be a "player" or a "dog." But when a female sleeps around with many men she is potrayed as a "whore." Sex is a powerful bond that should not be taken lightly. Fornication destroys the body like a bad disease and leaves behind ugly dark scars.
3. STOP PURSUING MARRIED MEN- It seems ridiculous that I have to point this out, but the wedding ring is not like the Good Housekeeping symbol. It does not mean he's a good man just because he found someone to marry him. It means he's committed to someone else, and if he sees you on the side, he's just another dog. Let me be clear with females dating married men: He is not leaving his wife for you. Marriage is a Holy and sacred bond united by God to join a man and a woman together until death do them part. There is no room for a fourth party; therefore, no one should come between God, a husband and a wife. God allows good relationships to manifest into wonderful marriages.
Females should place their hearts in the hands of God and He will place it in the hands of a man who He believes deserves it.
